baby talk

Thirty seven weeks, and I'm starting to slow down a little. I'm so behind with responding to email and feel terrible about it, but hope those waiting on me understand that my pace is slowing to a plod. The only sewing I managed on the weekend was hemming the edges of these muslin squares for baby wraps. Not that I care much about gender specific colours, but there's rather a blue theme going on isn't there? I've been staring to wonder what the chances are of the sonographer being wrong... what if it's a girl after all? At least she'd have a name - boy's names are still a hot topic of discussion around here.

In any case, baby has turned so isn't breech any longer, and my doctor revised the size down to only 2 weeks ahead (instead of a whopping 8 which was the suggestion at my previous appointment. Phew!) So, after thinking all along that I'd probably be a candidate for repeat c-section (Audrey was born by emergency caesar), I'm staring down the barrel of a possible vbac. What a rollercoaster. And the braxton hicks started yesterday, so the time is nigh to read, read, read, to brush up my knowledge about delivery. This is a strange point of pregnancy to be at, and I find my mind preoccupied with questions that can't be answered, and situations that can't be controlled. Mixed in with the odd rush of excitement and burning desire to sew baby stuff. At least my bag is packed!

Comments

[Michelle]

I'm thinking every possible good thought I can for you right now, for a fast, uncomplicated, speedy, comfortable-as-can-be (and did I mention quick?) delivery. I just got back from a baby shower, so I'm all in the baby mood and feeling very nostalgic. Take care!

[h&b]

I'm spying on you and your blog with interest - yay on the turning - good baby !

I'm still doing things at my regular pace .. which makes me think i'll overcook again - I just feel too goddamn normal to be anywhere near the end of the ride..

I can't wait to hear your news ! It's a waiting game ! :)

[sallyd]

happy thoughts for you & your little one on a safe arrival into this world.. my little one arrived a little ahead of time, but in an all giant rush - first time too.. 4 months on, it still seems like yesterday we were bringing him home.. how this time flies.. best wishes to you..

[Mandy]

Just remember; there has been many women who have done this before you. And the labour/delivery is just a small blip in the whole process. A piece of cake! Good luck!

[emma]

I hope that everything goes as "smoothly" as possible for you, not that I'd call giving birth smooth! Our little man came into the world right on time the other day, and I can't begin to express how grateful I am that there were no complications. It's the waiting, especially in those final weeks, that can lead to stress and worry over the birth and the outcomes...I'm sure that everything will be fine for you. I'll be thinking of you.

[Kristy]

Nearly there! Enjoy these last few moments and relax.

[lindsey clare]

how wonderful. i don't have kids yet but as a woman i have a huge fascination with how it all goes. it's really quite amazing.

good luck!

[Michelle]

HA, my hospital bag wasn't packed with my last baby (second son) until the week he was born...my hubby kept nagging me to get it done (In our house, its my hubby that nags, not me : )
Anyway, praying loads of blessings on this birth for you - Children are a blessing in and of themselves! (sorry I'm gushing with joy because I found out this week, we're expecting our third)

[elizabooth]

Thank you so much for writing about all of this stuff -- I am so close to being in the same headspace as you (mind you, I'm only a mere 32 weeks). We're also hoping that our diagnosis of boy is wrong, if only because we can't agree on a name for the little guy (we chose a girl's name before I even got pregnant). Also, my daughter was an emergency c-section and I'm starting Vbac classes tomorrow, because we're hoping to do this one the old fashioned way.

So, if it makes you feel any better, you've got a supporter halfway across the world (Canada) who feels your concerns. Best of luck!

[Ursa]

I think all you need to know is the breathing technique, ask for epidural and having a great nurse. :) Then the birth is a breeze and you will forget about the pain the second after the baby comes. My fingers are crossed!

[grace]

Its all such an amazing time. Wonder, excitement, doubt and joy all mixed around.I hope it all goes super smooth for you.

[Morgan]

Oh good luck! Can't wait to see the new bundle : )

[Morgan]

Oh good luck! Can't wait to see the new bundle : )

[hazeljoy]

wow, what an exciting time. good luck with the birth (when he comes), i hope it all goes well for you xx

[chelsea]

so excited for you! Good luck with keeping yourself preoccupied until time comes for him to arrive!

[Julia]

I have enjoyed reading your blog and I really love your work. I have never commented before, but after reading your most recent entry I just want to wish you all the best for the birth of your baby and that everything goes just the way you want to. I am thinking of you and send my best wishes from Germany

[Jenny]

I wish you only the best for the safe arrival of your precious little gift.

I had an emergency caesar with my first child and was facing similar with my second. Desperate for information I asked everyone about vbac. My midwife told me that I had to be wary of chemical inducement of and during labour because the chemical can cause deterioration of your scar and increases chances of tearing during labour.

No one else had told me about this. The more I looked into this the more I found to support her views. I was glad that she told me. I was glad to have the information as it seemed vital to me as my first labour was induced. Didn't matter in the end....2nd caesar followed! Ha! Best laid plans eh?

[Annika]

I found your blog and really like it. Your softies are lovely! I make a link to you from my swedish crochet blog. Good luck to you, I know the feeling since I'm in week 39 and can barely get out of the sofa :)

[bigbucketgirl]

Wishing you the best for you and your baby when 'it' makes its arrival!

[Tiel]

you are a very brave woman for for opting for a vbac. I gave it serious thought when pregnant with my second, but decided not to in the end. I have to say the elected C was so much nicer than labouring for 18 hours, than having a emergency C and cysts removed. The recovery was very easy too. I was a little bit like Jenny, too nervous that I would have to be induced again and tear.

If you get your head space right, you'll be far more confident to get through labour and don't your body has a memory too, so it will work better for you I am sure.

I was told also that my second was looking "girlish" by the sonographer. When asked for more clarification, he didn't really say. So I wasn't convinced I was having a girl until I saw her. I remained in that 'just in case' frame of mind right up until the moment she came out. Hence her nick name in utero was ISH.

my friend is just about to have her second boy and has struggled with boy's names all along. he will be called Remy.

[Rebecca (felting and living sustainably in rural Ireland)]

I hope you have a wonderful and lovely birth, enjoy it, its possible. x

[suzy]

I'm so glad to hear the baby has turned around, and I hope the delivery goes well too. I've been thinking of you with the hot temperatures in Adelaide... it doesn't sound like fun at all, let alone when pregnant. Take care x

[amy]

My first was a c-section and I just found out i am pregnant with no.2. I think after a c-section you will be prepared for anything that comes your way!

[Crystal]

37 weeks and your just now slowing down? My God woman- your amazing. I think I slowed down around week 8 when I couldn't pry myself off the bathroom floor I was so sick. I never could recover my momentem after that. She made her apperance at week 36-THANK YOU JESUS. I could barley roll out of bed by then.

I am excited for you and the new babe. They are rather great, aren't they. Wishing you the best.

[Faye Sather]

I love the blankets thay look so soft. Wishing you well.